Welcome to the blog today, I am so excited to share this author with you - I have seen her name pop up from time-to-time and am excited to get to know her a little better! This genre is out of the norm for me, but
I was given a spot on this tour by Marissa over at Sizzling PR, thanks Marissa!
**Today's post features an adult topic, please be aware of that before you click below.
Cassandra Carr is a multi-published erotic romance writer who lives in Western New York with her husband, Inspiration, and her daughter, Too Cute for Words. When not writing she enjoys watching hockey and hanging out on Twitter.
Her debut novel, Talk to Me, was released by Loose Id on March 22, 2011. Head Games, Buffalo Intimidators book 1, released on November 2, 2011 from Siren Bookstrand. Caught released December 6, 2011 from Loose Id, and Impact is coming February 1, 2012 from Ellora's Cave.
For more information about Cassandra, check out her website at http://www.booksbycassandracarr.com, "like" her Facebook fan page at http://www.facebook.com/AuthorCassandraChttps://www.facebook.com/authorcassandracarr... or follow her on Twitter at http://www.twitter.com/Cassandra_Carr.
Author Guest Post:
Is submission a weakness or a strength?
by Cassandra Carr
One of the biggest complaints I hear about BDSM books is that people who are unfamiliar with the lifestyle think submissives are weak - particularly female submissives.
A lot of strong, self-respecting women do. Because it's their choice. And that doesn't make them weak.
Submission is a gift, and a weak-willed person cannot truly give it, in my opinion. Someone has to be mentally strong to submit to another person. Otherwise it's not true submission. Again, my opinion.
Who are some of the most likely types of women to submit? Women who are in control in other areas of their lives. Maybe they're a CEO. Maybe they manage an office. Maybe they run a large household. All are leadership positions with a lot of responsibility, albeit of different types. The opportunity to submit gives them one area - one little area - where they're not in complete control. In this way, they can allow someone else to take the reins, to know and do what's best for them, and to help them achieve maximum pleasure.
How can a weak person do that?